ONE ENCOUNTER TOO MANY… (TRUE LIFE EXPERIENCE)


      It is with great pleasure, I welcome you to this special realistic platform; where ample space is given to women and youths- male and female from all parts of this earth; either to share some of your life experiences with others to learn from it or to help in sharing your own opinion concerning those who shared their own life experience and are expecting to have either word of advice or encouragement. Without wasting time, this platform (Blog) will be taking off with this true -life experience shared by a young lady. At the end of the story, your highly cherished views will be expected at the comments’ section. Please take your time to read and ponder over it before making your own comments:  
              Lenda (assumedly) was a lady in her late twenties, average height and reasonably beautiful; she wore a sadistic look; destabilized physically, emotionally and in several other ways. As she walked slowly (even delicately) into the moderate office space, I indicated her to sit down on a nearby cushion chair and pretended to be looking through some documents on my table, in order to let her compose herself better than the dismal way she was looking when she came in. She fished out a blue handkerchief from her hand bag and wiped off some sweat that spread over her face. It was obvious that she was eager to get the opportunity to pour out her heart to whoever wanted to listen.  
      In a low, intimate tone; I said to her, “You are welcome, young lady”, “Lenda”, she added, trying to be cheerful. So, I was encouraged to continue; “It is my pleasure to see you here at this moment, I hope I can really help you.” She moved a little closer to me and began to narrate her life story: “I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost five years and we were looking forward to tying the knot as soon as possible. But in the past two years, he started making awkward demands that are capable of consuming my life completely.” I was curious to hear those words and I bent forward towards her sitting position so I could hear her in clearer tones. I asked to know what she meant by something that could consume her life totally. In reply, she cleared her throat and narrated how the guy had been having carnal knowledge of her and it had resulted in her aborting pregnancies five times in the past two years!
         She also narrated how the Doctor who had been performing the actions signaled her to find time to come and see him on her spare time, which she did. The Doctor warned her to stay away from what he called “Blood thirsty guy”, which she couldn’t bring herself to do; and therefore decided to come to seek help and advice. I said to her, “You both have tangible jobs in your hands, why can’t you people go ahead and arrange to get married for once?” She replied that he always said it was not yet time, he was not ready for proper family life yet. I asked her when she had the last abortion, “Four months ago…” I asked to know what had been happening since then to which she replied that he had started demanding for sex again, rejecting any offer to use some protective device. As at present, he had made it clear to her that in case she was not willing to agree to his (awkward) term; she should consider the relationship done.
     At this point I asked to know what was on her mind and she indicated promptly, “I’m so confused…”  Then I decided to come out a bit punchy at her as I declared, “Hey Lady, there’s nothing to be confused about here, he is not ready to have you as a life partner but a temporary ‘Pleasure partner!’ Lenda sat up and wore a frown on her face as she said emphatically, “You mean the Doctor was right?” And I replied, “Nothing could be further from the truth.” I advised her to stand her ground never to yield her body to him anymore… She stood up slowly to go, promising to return after some time. I stood up also, to escort her to the door with some words of advice not to do anything rash or regrettable. Being a bit more cheerful than when she first walked in; she said she would comply with the words of advice and she waved as she said goodbye.
Dear reader, I like you to share your opinion on this matter and lend a word of advice to the lady which may also benefit others in similar position as the one narrated here. Your opinions or words of advice are highly welcome and cherish able. However, you can be sure that we are yet to get to the end of the matter and it shall be revisited someday…

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